Tia Things

Hey gems, I know one of your all time favorite blogs of mine is one I did that was about my insecurities. I talked about how certain items about me, my physical appearance and persannilty traits created huge insecurities. This was before I started working and before quarantine, I really feel like in the last yea some have stayed the same, and some insecurities have changed. So here we are, a year after the last insecurities blog I wrote and boy have things changed. I am now- sometimes- a full on adult. Sometimes I still choose to argue whether that is true or not (hi mama). But now over a year of working full time, a career that is blossoming, additional classes post undergrad, my relationship steady as ever and my whole family in a beautiful place. I think the last year may have changed how I see myself and my little world. 1. Body adjustments Now I have been very open about how my perception of my body has shifted pretty much constantly in the last few years. My body went fro...

Hey gems, Letting you all in on some personal things today, fears. We all have them, and I keep being told that the only way to conquer your fears is to face them head on so why not just blow them out of the water... to whoever is reading this. The first fear is just so inconvenient. I've mentioned how much I love summer, the beach, etc. well, I'm also TERRIFIED of the ocean. The way the ocean pulls you in, when you can't touch the bottom and are being pulled in, or the fact that there are sharks, jellyfish and all kind of other living things around that an sneak up on you at any moment *Insert anxiety meltdown here*. This fear is probably the one want to conquer the most because I truthfully love the ocean in theory. I love the freedom, the live within it, and the fact that it covers more than 70% of the world!! I want to be able to run into the ocean and let myself feel Zen in that salty water, but it has been really hard for me. The last tie  was in the ocean I h...